Parents of the new era are particularly interested in educating their children.(Photo: ITN).
Parents of the new era are particularly interested in educating their children.This is not only the luck of children but also the luck of parents.
From a psychological perspective, some of the following signs show that you are educating your child the right method.
I dare to express my true feelings in front of you parents
Everyone has their own emotions, and children are no exception, parents are the safest and warmest "stop" for their children.
If the child dares to express his most honest feelings in front of his parents, especially angry, sad, fear, ... That shows the child who is very confident in his parents.
This shows that the gap between parents and children is very close, in the hearts of children have enough security, they act naturally.
If the child always hides his emotions in front of his parents or only dares to express a certain kind of emotion, it means that there is a problem between parents and children.
The love of parents for their children must be altruistic, so no matter what emotions, parents should have an acceptable attitude, so that their children can live in a truly comfortable environment.
If you are injured or have problems , I run come parents right away
Parents often say their children are lying, they do not dare to speak up when they are bullied by their classmates, they do not ask for parents' advice when having problems ...
The reason children do not tell their parents or do not let their parents know because they are afraid of their parents blaming, fearing parents mocking, afraid of parents who do not trust, fear parents do not care ...
Therefore, when children make mistakes or make mistakes, parents should not directly scold but should find a solution.
If not, you will lose your child's trust for you and there will be some distance between parents and children.
When the child dares to confide with his parents anything, it proves that the child trusts his parents and feels secure enough.
I'm ready to talk to parents About my thoughts
When you are willing to tell you about your thoughts, even if they are just imagination, it is enough to show the relationship between you and you very close.
Some parents are too strict with their children, whenever their children have bad thoughts or do wrong, they will immediately interrupt and teach them a lesson.
This will make you more and more away from you and they will never want to tell you their true thoughts later.
Response I receive from parents Not is disdain
Doing things you like can help children develop the feeling of achievement.(Photo: ITN).
Some parents give non -objective feedback to their children, even assigning many labels to their children.There are even some parents who always attribute their children after talking about their children's behaviors - such as lazy, less intelligent, ...
These labels and judgments do not make children better but only make them more and more "labels".
The labeling for children at will will make children become worse, or put the child on a high pedestal, making the child's life very tired.
Children are the unique angels.They can be intelligent, stupid, mischievous, or consistent.Each child has its own personality and does not need any definition.
Children are always encouraged to do what they want
Doing things you like can help children develop the feeling of achievement.In the process of pursuing hobbies, children will develop their ability to persevere and have less adventure acts.
Some parents do not allow their children to explore the field they care about.Instead, the "hobbies" of them for children to develop are essentially their own unsatisfactory hobbies.
If parents do not let their children find talent and force their children to study areas where they are not interested, they will be very afraid of parents disappointed and especially stressed in the learning process.
As a result, children are constantly learning in oppressed conditions.
Not all children have to become scientists, engineers, painters, doctors, teachers ... You should not impose your ideas on your child no matter what you do, it's what you wantdo the most and happiest.
Talents are not cultivated by their parents but are discovered by their children through continuous exploration.If parents force their children to do things they don't like, they will be under great pressure and their happiness index will be very low.